Disputes about children in a court are the most difficult for
the parties in terms of psychological discomfort and sustained
In addition, a dispute between parents whom the child loves
and feels sorry for is a psychological trauma and a difficult
life situation for a child.
For the weak child psyche, such a test does not pass without
a trace. The child is forced to adapt to the parent with whom
he is currently living. Therefore, he may show negative behaviour
toward a parent living apart contrary to his will for objective
Often the child defiantly refuses to communicate with a father
or mother living apart. This is due to the desire of the child
to play along with the parent with whom he is forced to reside.
However, the parent who set up the child against the other parent
will soon receive in his home a neurotic and a manipulator who
will use the conflict between the parents in his own interests
and blackmail the parent with whom he is living in future.
For the best resolution of disputes between parents regarding
the place of residence of children or determination of the order
of communication of a parent living apart, it is necessary to
competently organize a legal process and at the same time to restore
a dialogue between themselves.
Sometimes only going to a court helps to bring a parent, who
abuses his parental rights and acts solely in his own interests
in resolving a dispute regarding a child or children, to his senses.
Among disputes about children, the practice includes disputes
regarding the place of residence of children and disputes about
the rights of a parent living apart regarding the upbringing of
Many people think that they can start the process and resolve
the problem without a lawyer by themselves. However, they make
fatal mistakes and strategic miscalculations in the course of
consideration of the case in court that lead to the adoption of
a negative decision for this parent.
In the future, the erroneous conclusions of the court are always
used by the other parent to substantiate his legal position when
considering new disputes about children between the same parties.
It is very important to find a specialist in family disputes
since criminal and arbitration lawyers have little idea how to
protect their client in disputes over children.
The experience of a lawyer is also important since good advice,
given in the process of resolving a lawsuit, can protect a client
from fatal mistakes and direct the whole case to the best resolution
of the dispute between parents in the interests of their children.
Children do not forgive the mistakes of their parents made in
the process of their upbringing. The child remembers all good
and all bad.
The relationship between parents and children is laid in early
childhood, so it is important not to miss the chance to do everything
correctly and in the interests of their children.
Sometimes only going to the court by one of the parents can protect
the child from the arbitrary behaviour of the other parent and
help to establish relations with their own children spoiled by
quarrels of the parents.
Preparation of such disputes requires attention to small details
and forces to start collecting evidence to substantiate any of
Parents should remember that the close relatives of the child
also have the right to communicate with the child by law. Therefore,
sometimes it is possible to resolve a dispute between a grandmother
or grandfather and a parent of a child regarding their communication
with their grandson only in court.
You should always motivate your demands only with the best protection
of the interests of children when preparing for child disputes
in court. You should forget about your rights and put them in
second place, leaving the first place to protect the rights of
The travel of children abroad with one of the parents to rest
or to live abroad without the consent of the second parent is
also linked to disputes about children.
Proper justification of the need to remove the ban imposed by
one parent on travelling of a child outside Russia, and correct
proving of claims for permission to go with a child to live outside
of the Russian Federation without the consent of the second parent
will give to the claimant confidence to win a lawsuit and get
permission from the court to stay with the child abroad.
It is important to remember that disputes about children can
be filed in court at any time before the majority of children
in the event of a change in the material circumstances of each
Only an experienced family lawyer can help to deal
with a difficult situation and provide strong and timely protection.
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